Spare Bedroom Dresser

Update on my Epic Fail from yesterday.  My boss thought it was ridiculous that I thought I would get fired. She expressed that although it wasn't ideal, there were extenuating circumstances and that I was a great employee and that I needed to just keep working at getting my priorities and balance to where I needed them to be.  Good to know.

On another topic, I've been thinking about how to organize my drawers. I want my drawers to look like this:

It doesn't.  First of all, I have mostly brown, black, gray and white socks. Second until recently I have been "balling" them up, that is if they are even mated at all, and tossed in a drawer.

The dresser in my bedroom has 7 drawers 3 small across the top and then two rows of two at the bottom.

The Jewelry Organization on my dresser is for another day.  I have nightgowns in the top left drawer, Bras in the middle, Panties in top right.
Second row left to right  white socks colored / socks
Third row left to right     Sleeping shorts / pajama bottoms.
I am looking for frugal solutions for dresser drawer organization. Do you configure yours differently?

In the spare bedroom dresser I store my less frequently used items:

The First two drawers are for "fancy" panties & bras and also for tights and hosiery.  In the second picture we have sports bras, bathing suits, strapless bras and shape-wear. 

(Above) Third Drawer: Sports bras and active-wear

 

Plus a newly empty cabinet: What should I store in here?

I also just finished folding all of my sheet sets in my linen closet into bedsheet bundles thanks to the great direction in this Instructable:  

How-To-Fold-Bedsheet-Sets-into-a-Bedsheet-Bundle

Epic Fail

Today I messed up and I mean big time.  Last night I missed my bedtime by about an hour, getting to lay down around 2:00 am.  That's not normally a big deal but even after laying down I had some trouble falling asleep.  This isn't unusual for me to have trouble going to sleep because my mind just doesn't stop. I think think think think all the time. I was sure to set a bunch of alarms as I usually do. I was suppose to be at work at 9:30 today which means worst case scenario I need to be up by 8:30, and preferably by 7:45.

I woke up at 1:15 p.m.!!!!!!!!!!!!  Humiliation, Embarrassment, Disbelief, Shock, Anger can all describe the emotions that I felt when I looked at the clock.  I slept through 8, yes I said 8 alarms.  I am a store manager and the store is suppose to open at 1:00 on Sundays.  It takes me 30 minutes just to get to work.  I called the other manager to ask if she could run in and get the store open (she lives a few minutes away) while I made it there.  I arrived at 1:45 p.m.  4 hours and 15 minutes late for my scheduled shift. 

I am not the kind of person that does this kind of thing.  I have a good attitude, I am a hard worker, I give my best efforts because I believe at the end of the day I am working for God.  I recently, along with my husband, took over the youth group at our church.  I had known I was suppose to do it for a very long time but put it off because of my work schedule.  Finally I surrendered to it, but have been struggling managing both responsibilities.  My boss wanted (past tense after today) to make me a Training Store Manager in order to fast track me to be a DM.  I told her that I don't think I want that level of responsibility at this time.  Its not that I don't want to do well at work, I just want to make sure that God and His work I am to carry out is at the proper priority level.

I keep thinking, "Why didn't I wake up 20 minutes sooner, so at the least the other manager would have gotten there in enough time that the store didn't open late."
 
Am I struggling with something so much because its not what I am "called" to do?  This is just one small and brief example of the trials I have endured. 

I have always done well at work, moving up quickly, being a standout amongst my peers, and while I have definitely had key accomplishments I have had very low lows with my DM remarking, "It's like you can't catch a break." She told me that in 8 years she has never seen another manager go through so much craziness.  I have remained upbeat through it all, determined to persevere.  Now I just don't know.  Am I working against God's will for my life?  Am I suppose to tread on and endure?  I told God I would do whatever He wanted me to do, go wherever He wanted me to go.  I feel like He is pushing me in a different direction but how do I know for sure?

I trust God and will trust Him no matter what. I know He will provide.  I very well may get fired tomorrow or some time this week but I am trusting that it is all apart of His plan.  I feel bad for letting my boss down and possibly putting my family in a difficult financial spot, but its not like I've actually done anything wrong.  I wouldn't be terminated for poor performance my DM thinks I am awesome and my store's numbers show that we are performing well, top in the district and top 20 (out of 90) in the zone. 

I've been asking God to help me see what I need to do about managing my time.  I've been trying to organize and plan so that I can make the most out of my time and juggle work and church, youth group and family and I think He just gave me my answer, He created some more time for me.  I will keep working at being more organized and frugal (For sure, looks like we will need it) and clean and orderly.

I'll post a follow up tomorrow

What I have learned in 3 days

    Today I got out of the house with makeup and deodorant applied and teeth brushed.
 Even better I made it to work on time.

Last night I almost made my 1:00 a.m. bedtime.  I was a little late getting off the computer (12:40ish) and I wanted to make sure to continue my habit of 20-30 minutes of  tidying up and prep for the next day before bed. I finished up some laundry, put some away. Picked up the living room, straightened my bathroom a bit and was in bed by 1:20ish.  I read for a while finishing the first two chapters of The Blessed Life by Robert Morris.  Which probably put me asleep by 2:30ish. 

I woke up this morning at 11:00 (getting 8.5 hours of sleep) and started getting ready for work.  Quick shower, Iron clothes, dressed, makeup, teeth, deodorant, Hair and grab something for lunch and supper and out the door.

On the way to work this morning I listened to a podcast lesson by Preacher Bob Coy on Finding favor with God.

I had a great day at work, talked with Jason on the way home and discovered that he had made supper (Pork roast, mashed potatoes and green beans) he had straightened and cleaned the living room, moved the internet router to the bedroom, and he was thinking about rearranging our bedroom.

Two hazards in the way of my journey to a more productive, less cluttered, more organized pleasant existence are 1. Having my laptop in the living room which keeps me up later at night and 2. Reclining sofa.  For whatever reason my reclining sofa is like that black hole of laziness that sucks my butt into it.  There is a reason there a brand of recliners called Lazyboys; just saying.


After helping J rearrange the bedroom to accommodate my computer desk which I am at right now, we also switched sides of the bed, mainly because I like being closest to the door.  How important is it to you to sleep on a certain side of the bed, and furthermore is it a certain side of the room or is it the side of the bed that matters, just curious?

Lastly I ate my supper at the kitchen table, continued my nightly laundry/pickup prep routine and ready now to play a little longer on the computer and read a little before bed.

Here we Go

I am determined to blog the truth about this transformation as it happens. I am not happy with how my life is going and am excited to make changes necessary to get things in order.

I told my DH tonight about how I was feeling and he agreed wholeheartedly. We both feel that we are too lazy. I am excited to start putting effort to make changes that will improve the quality of my life. I have a lot of things that I want to change. Here are some of the ways I want to be better:
1. Get to work, church etc on time
2. Maintain a clean home
3. Maintain a neat and organized home
4. Read a book every two weeks
5. Study, pray and meditate on God's word more (ultimately getting to several hours a week) outside of church
6. Pay all bills on time.
7. Eat at home more often (at the kitchen table).
8. Have makeup applied, teeth brushed, deodorant applied every time I leave the house (I sometimes apply makeup at work and carry deodorant in my purse in case I forget.)
9. Pay down doctors bills and credit card bills
10. Exercise 3 times a week minimum.
11. Attend at least two church services a week.
12. Build the Youth Ministry at church.
13. Make my bed every day.
14. Be more frugal.
15. Properly fold a fitted sheet.
16. reupholster a couch patchwork style
17. Learn to sew to do hems and alterations
18. Walk the dogs a few times a week
19. Maintain a budget
20. Live greener

These are just a handful of all the ways that I want to improve myself.
Tonight I cleaned out my closet of all the clothes that either didn't fit or weren't fit to wear and organized it by style (casual or dressy/tops/bottoms) by fabric (knit/woven) by length or sleeve length and by color. I did three loads of laundry, even putting everything away. I set out my outfit for tomorrow and even did a SHMILY for my DH by setting out his uniform for tomorrow too. Day 1 in a day of a very long journey.